What is the best thing you can leave for your children after you die? Jewelry, Business, A big house or Money, the answer is “NO” , non of these. The best thing you leave for your children is your legacy of stories, experiences, and lessons. It’s always these three things that hold us together as generations. After going through one of the books, for the past week I have been thinking to start a blog of my EXPERIENCES and Lessons, It’s going to be absolutely public, because let’s face it we all go through certain moments in life that are awful, and worth a talk.

Lesson 1

The 1st lesson that I learnt in my small lifetime is, “Learn to orchestrate happiness”. Life is messy. We all know this. Terrible things happen, I learnt this during a phase of my life that made me NUMB. But no matter what happens, life is only a series of days. You can’t control more than a single day. But can control “one” of them. 24 hours can be curated.

Always follow “ONE DAY AT A TIME” theory.

Lesson 2

You will always comes across this situation where it will be difficult to imagine yourself in an inferior position, of wanting to impress anyone. Trust me , that’s OK. MOVE ON.

Lesson 3

There are going to be days when you will FRET, and it’s completely normal. You will find yourself thinking “I don’t know why it’s got to me so much. I have never been a worrier, the sort of person who wakes up at 3 in the morning , FRETTING. Not until recently anyway”.

Lesson 4

You want to be the person after everyone’s heart. Organized, Capable, Discreet. There has to be a coolness in you, a detachment that some might not like. You should prefer it! You don’t have to pretend that you are someone’s friend , when you are not. You might look like a person next door but with a steelier side.

Lesson 5

Being clueless about things is dangerous, it makes you vulnerable.

To Be Continued! Until next time!

Love
R!